
Belonging is a Basic Human Need
"From myself I am copper, through you, friend, I am gold. From myself I’m a stone, but through you, I am a gem!" ~ Rumi

Therapy is a Hike
"Where you stand determines what you see and what you do not see; it determines also the angle you see it from; a change in where you stand changes everything." ~ Steve de Shazer

Support is Vital for Healing from Trauma
"Adversity is like the period of the rain. . . cold, comfortless, unfriendly to people and to animals; yet from that season have their birth the flower, the fruit, the date, the rose and the pomegranate." ~ Walter Scott

Empathy Leads to Legacy
"Yet, taught by time, my heart has learned to glow for other's good, and melt at other's woe." ~ Homer

The Importance of the Therapeutic Relationship
"Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light." ~ Helen Keller

Hardship Develops Into Growth
"I've come to realize that real growth of character takes place in the valleys of life." ~ Dave Dravecky

Creativity is Mental Flexibility
"Instead of command and control, managing the creative process is about facilitating and permitting." ~ John Kao

Leading By Example
"Your children will become what you are; so be what you want them to be" ~ David Bly

Focus More on Delighting Yourself
"I believe if you follow your heart and do what you love, success will follow. If you enchant yourself, others will be too." ~ Mark Ryden

Knowing You Deserve More
"Jealousy springs more from love of self than from love of another." ~ Francois de La Rochefoucauld

Talk Fuels Action
"Where wise actions are the fruit of life, wise discourse is the pollination." ~ Bryant H. McGill

Using Both Anger and Hope for Change
"One of the things I think the next president has to do is to stop fanning people's fears. If we spend all our time feeding the American people fear and conflict and division, then they become fearful and conflicted and divided. And if we feed them hope and we feed them reason and tolerance, then they will become tolerant and reasonable and hopeful." ~ Barack Obama

Why Therapists Challenge Assumptions
"There will always be rocks in the road ahead of us. They will be stumbling blocks or stepping stones; it all depends on how you use them." ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

Moving From Abuse to Empowerment
"Mishaps are like knives, that either serve us or cut us, as we grasp them by the blade or the handle." ~ James Russell Lowell


Unique Perspectives are Wanted
"I do not want a friend who smiles when I smile, who weeps when I weep; for my shadow in the pool can do better than that." ~ Confucius

All People Deserve Love and Respect
"To feed men and not to love them is to treat them as if they were barnyard cattle. To love them and not respect them is to treat them as if they were household pets." ~ Mencius

Choosing a Direction Saves You Energy
"A person has three choices in life. You can swim against the tide and get exhausted, or you can tread water and let the tide sweep you away, or you can swim with the tide, and let it take you where it wants you to go." ~ Andrew Schneider

Burnout is a Reasonable Response
"The way to crush the bourgeoisie is to grind them between the millstones of taxation and inflation." ~ Vladimir Lenin

Healing Takes Place in the Now
"For a moment, I wondered how different my life would have been had they been my parents, but I shook the thought away. I knew my father had done the best he could, and I had no regrets about the way I'd turned out. Regrets about the journey, maybe, but not the destination. Because however it had happened, I'd somehow ended up eating shrimp in a dingy downtown shack with a girl that I already knew I'd never forget." ~ Nicholas Sparks